When sitting amongst people, the most important trait people get attracted to, is the
the knowledge you reflect in your conversations.
Knowing about some of the most trending information in the world will not only grasp their attention but will also help you be the center of every conversation. If you are successful in becoming a host for the conversation, it is highly likely that you have created a great impact as an influencer.
The quality of information plays a major role. Try to be as authentic as possible. Try to learn more facts and information on the most trending topics that will help to tell people what they haven’t been reading.
Intellect also plays a major role to create that impact on people. It gives them an extra belief about your authenticity. Don’t just pretend to know everything because if you get caught, it would be hard to build that trust again. Saying a simple no for the topics you don’t know and with a possible reply that I haven’t heard about it will help you a lot. Showing some interest when others are talking will help them to believe that you are a good listener as well.
Showing some good traits of a good listener will attract people to you. Everyone wants to be heard and if you show no sign of interest then they possibly want to ghost you out.
You could possibly show some sense of humor in your talks. But don’t use it very frequently and in every part of the conversation as you possibly don’t have to look like a joker.
The impactful conversations aren’t difficult but you need to work a little on yourself to make that lasting impact on people.